What it Takes to Become a London Escort

Working as an escort can bring you high earnings, a flexible schedule and fulfilment doing something you love. But it’s not something everyone is cut out for.

Becoming an escort is not easy. Our escorts in London spend time and effort to stay on top of their game. They’re multi-talented, stunningly beautiful and skilled in the bedroom.

If you want to join their ranks, here are some tips and attributes you need to have to match these high standards.

Conduct Thorough Research

If you want to join the escorting world, it’s a good idea to do some research first. Look into the laws surrounding escorting in London, how much you could earn and what the demands are like.

This knowledge will help you make an informed decision. You’ll be completely prepared for all the challenges you could face and you’ll be ready to deal with them.

Enthusiasm For Sex

Clients love to see genuine enthusiasm, so enjoyment of sex is crucial. Escorts who are enthusiastic and comfortable taking the lead are those who really impress their clients. When clients book escorts, they expect to see someone who seems interested in them.

They’re also often booking escorts to fulfil a certain fantasy. While being clear about boundaries is also essential, having an adventurous nature is a plus. Being open-minded to offer a variety of services like CIM, A-level, PSE or even kissing can help to appeal to a wider range of clients. Gaining more experience and confidence can help to improve your level of service.

"The guys can tell if you’re not into it. I genuinely love sex, and I think that’s why they keep coming back—I’m always up for a bit of naughty fun." - Sedum

Physical Appearance:

London escorts are beautiful. With natural good looks, they are some of the most attractive women in the city. Maintaining a flawless appearance requires dedication to have blemish-free skin, lustrous hair and a toned physique. Make sure to regularly attend the gym, eat well and always have impeccable grooming.

The same care should apply to what you wear. Make sure to use makeup that complements your beauty and wear elegant attire that doesn’t draw too much attention to yourself. A polished look will help you be discreet and blend in when moving through hotel lobbies or crowded areas.

Professional Photography

Your portfolio is how you market yourself as an escort and the most important thing clients look at when deciding to book you. Getting it right can be the difference between getting bookings and not.

Investing in high-quality, professional photos ensures you present yourself in the best light. Adding selfies and videos can give clients even more of a glimpse into your personality. It also helps to build trust with clients. They want to know that who they see in the pictures is exactly who they’ll meet in real life. Keeping these photos accurate and up to date is something you’ll need to keep on top of.

"I’m in the gym five days a week and my skincare routine could be a full-time job on its own. If you want to look expensive, you have to put in the work. And I never skimp on my photos." - Fabiola

Prioritize Safety and Boundaries

Creating your own boundaries and communicating these will help you to feel more secure in your role. Being able to give a polite, but unmistakable ‘no’ to clients is a vital skill to learn. Giving yourself a fake name, cropping your face out of pictures or even using a separate phone for work can all help to keep you safe.

Many take comfort in having their own support network and knowing they have someone to rely on. Working with a reputable agency can also help escorts to feel safe. Being with an agency means regular, well-behaved clients and you can benefit from a wider exposure.

Want some more tips on dealing with nervous clients? See our advice for making new clients feel comfortable in this blog. 

Personality and Social Skills

Clients expect warmth, excitement and a friendly attitude from escorts. Making them feel at ease and desired is key to them enjoying their experience - and wanting to come back for more.

Having a charming personality, charisma and conversational skills allows you to truly connect with clients, offering an experience that mimics a real relationship. Providing a listening ear and being empathetic can help to create a girlfriend experience that many clients crave.

"I’ve had clients say they book me just for the chat! Half the time it’s about making them feel special, sexy and heard." - Yanna

Flexibility

One of the great advantages of being an escort means you get to have a flexible schedule. But it also means you should be prepared for last-minute bookings. Being adaptable allows you to accommodate clients’ needs. It means you may also need to handle unexpected cancellations with as much professionalism.

Discretion and Confidentiality

Clients value escorts who know how to stay discreet. Knowing that anything they share with you is confidential helps clients to relax and enjoy their bookings. Respect their privacy and fly under the radar. Maintaining discretion can help to build trust with clients and ensure they keep on coming back.

Could You be Our Next Star Escort?

Our escorts are confident, assertive and flexible as well as being sexy and discreet. They’re attentive to their clients, sociable and fun-loving, while maintaining professionalism at all times. If you think you have all of these attributes and want to join them, apply to Top Secret Escorts now.

Want to see which kind of escorts are most popular with our clients? See our top 5 most popular escorts in May to find out.