Things All Escorts Want You to Know

There are a few basics every client should understand before booking an escort, yet many punters still wonder what’s going through an escort’s mind during a date. Do they enjoy the time, or are they simply waiting for it to be over? Are there things you could do differently to make the experience smoother and more exciting?

At Top Secret Escorts, our girls say the best clients are those who understand a handful of straightforward points. Keep these in mind, and you’ll not only enjoy yourself more, but you’ll also stand out in the best way possible.

And if you’re browsing for the right woman to put this into practice with, you can take your pick from a full gallery of the most stunning escorts London has ever seen.

Be Honest About What You Want

Honesty makes all the difference. Escorts prefer clients who can clearly state what they’re looking for. If you want a girlfriend experience, say so. If you’re hoping for OWO, rimming, anal, or massage, let the agency know before the booking is confirmed. Direct communication, avoids disappointment and ensures you both get exactly what you expect. Being vague or coy helps no one but a confident approach shows respect.

“If a client tells me upfront that he’s into roleplay, it means I can prepare the right outfit, and he gets exactly what he came for.” - Adjika

If you’re unsure what kind of services you might want to book, take a look at our Brazilian escorts’ favourite services here.

Respect Comes First

Respect is the cornerstone of every booking, and clients who show it tend to get the best service. What does respect look like in practice?

• Arriving on time.
• Not trying to haggle over prices.
• Understanding boundaries and not pushing for services not agreed upon.
• Staying sober and in control.

Professionalism goes both ways, so you should show the same courtesy to them as they show to you. Escorts know you expect them to be punctual, presentable and discreet. They appreciate it when clients hold themselves to the same standard.

“One client always greets me politely, never drinks too much, and it makes me want to give him my absolute best.” - Lally

Relax and Be Yourself

It’s natural to feel nervous before meeting an escort, especially if it’s your first time. Escorts are used to this and know how to help you relax, but you can also make things easier by not overcomplicating the situation.

Some clients try too hard to impress, which often has the opposite effect. Ordering the most expensive bottle of champagne or talking endlessly about money rarely creates the impression you think it will. What works far better is being yourself, engaging in normal conversation and letting the chemistry build naturally.

“A client once admitted he was nervous on his first booking, but once he stopped worrying and things progressed normally, the whole night flowed beautifully.” - Aresenia

You can read more about how our escorts put new clients at ease in this blog. 

Hygiene and Preparation

Hygiene is non-negotiable when it comes to escort encounters. A quick shower, fresh breath and clean clothes show that you’ve made the effort and value your escort’s time. Good preparation doesn’t take much but makes a huge difference and escorts really appreciate it.

Here’s what every client should keep in mind:

• Shave or trim if that’s your preference.
• Avoid drowning yourself in cologne.
• Keep your place tidy if the booking is happening at your home or hotel room.

These details create a comfortable environment for both of you. Escorts immediately notice the difference between a client who has taken care of himself and one who hasn’t.

“When a client has a shower before I arrive, it shows he cares about the booking as much as I do.” - Yanna

Treat it Like a Real Date

If you’re booking a girlfriend experience, remember that part of what you’re paying for is the atmosphere of intimacy. That means treating your escort like you would on a typical date. Small gestures go a long way like offering a drink, engaging in conversation, or even bringing a thoughtful gift.

Escorts who are treated like companions rather than just service providers are far more likely to relax and enjoy the booking themselves. The result? A more natural, fun and erotic encounter for you. Politeness, attention and genuine interest don’t cost anything, but they elevate the whole experience.

“One of my favourite bookings was with a client who took me to dinner first. It felt flirty and made the intimacy later on even better.” - Pancha

To get a real idea of what an escort encounter looks like, read our blog where we explain the differences between being with an escort and porn. 

They Don’t Do It Just for the Money

A common misconception is that escorts are only motivated by money. Of course, payment is part of the arrangement, but many escorts genuinely enjoy their work. They like the freedom it gives them, the chance to meet different people and the opportunity to explore sex in new ways.

Clients who assume an escort will do anything for more cash can come across as disrespectful. Suggesting services that are off-limits in exchange for higher payment not only breaks trust, it can also end the booking altogether.

Escorts value clients who recognise that while this is a job, it can also be enjoyable.

“Some clients are genuinely great company, and that makes it worthwhile.” - Aderyn

Book Your Escort with Confidence

Every great booking is built on a few simple principles: respect, good hygiene and treating your escort as more than a service provider. Keep these in mind, and you’ll find that your time together feels natural, exciting, and rewarding.

Book with us today and discover how much more satisfying an encounter can be when you approach it with confidence and consideration. Browse our gallery, choose the woman who excites you, from English, Brazilian or Russian escorts, and enjoy an experience that feels as good for her as it does for you.

Curious to see who are our most booked models? Check out our top 5 escorts in July to get some more ideas of who to book.